BBNaija’s Tochi Oke, who was a housemate in the lockdown edition of Big Brother Naija, has shared his thoughts about marriage and how it scares him as time passes.
The reality TV personality made this known via his verified twitter handle, where he stated that adults are beginning to be super comfortable being alone.
He revealed how the thought of saying ‘I do’ to someone each passing day is getting so scary to him.
He noted that the opposite partner might probably show their true colours later. He continued by saying that adults are now getting comfortable with being alone.
Many people were in support of his statement, saying that there’s no need of risking one’s peace of mind while trying to impress someone.
Taking to his twitter handle to share his thoughts, BBNaija’s Tochi wrote, “The truth is with each passing day the thought of saying I do to someone! That will probably show their true colours gets more scary! And adults are beginning to be super comfortable with being alone!”
Reacting to his statement,
@ _iamshelia wrote, “He’s right..why risk your peace of mind by being with someone who might probably give you wahala and turn your life upside down..when u can be happy on your own. People are just trinna protect their peace”.
Tee_girlx said, “Everyone is super proud these days…and there’s no longer genuine love.. also the idea that everyone is replaceable is another problem… we don’t value ourselves…. we always want the next best…so tiring… Contentment and mutual respect is what’s needed”.
Meetemmanueljacob stated, “ Better to be alone than to be with someone that makes you feel alone. Also, being alone does not equate loneliness. You can be surrounded by a lot of people and still feel lonely”.
Recall how Tochi deleted his proposal videos after Chioma his fiancée posted cryptic messages on her Instagram story.Things took a different turn after his fiancée Chioma shared a cryptic message on her Instagram story
